The most common source of the feeling of helplessness in my life aren’t things that happen to me, but things that happen to the people around me. Especially friends that have been unfairly burdened with something, or are going through something I went in the past…ugh, that makes me crazy. I just wanna get a gun, shovel, and a few bad-asses from my past to instantly fix the problem, lol.
Honestly, I let a lot of people out of my life two years ago when I made my major move toward sobriety, and honestly, the amount of stress in my life went down by about 75%. I am still walking around mindblown about much people affect me.