this could be titled “the correct care and feeding of an infj” vs. “dating an infj”. wonder if I could hand this out to people I’m considering becoming serious friends with.
“Hey, man, I gave you an instruction manual, and according to Item 5.3.2, you have screwed up.”
Note: I recently discovered the original website this list went to has been deleted; fortunately, I cached the list. Here it is.
INFJs are, by definition, rare, reserved, and unlikely to initiate anything, which means that many of them can end up alone and misunderstood. To help with things, I’ve compiled a list of points which I think would be of great use to anyone considering dating someone who identifies as an INFJ.
For most INFJs, omitting or distorting information is equivalent to lying, and at the very least will rouse their suspicion. INFJs have an acute sensitivity for stories which don’t quite fit. At the same time, INFJs also like to assume the best and can be extremely gullible.
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