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Forgiveness is a crucial part of learning how to deal with difficult people. You must forgive the difficult person, and you must forgive yourself for feeding into their behavior. Before you get upset, let me explain. As a society, we have been taught that forgiveness is a sign of weakness. In truth, it is the total opposite. It takes real inner strength to forgive and let go. Forgiveness doesn’t free the other person from the consequences of their actions. Instead, it releases you from the negative cycle of emotions that difficult people use to perpetuate abuse.

“Difficult People: Strategies for Dealing with Toxic People”, Luke Gregory

2 thoughts on “Forgiveness

  1. I hear that time and time again…the freeing. Nope…it lets the other person off the hook. The only thing Loser wanted from me was my forgiveness. That’s the one thing he never did or never will get. Why ease his conscience for him?


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